For Those in Despair and Pain

Posted On: August 29th, 2012 By: Donna Astern

A surprising number of believers have found themselves in a place of tremendous wounding, grief, and loss, even struggling with thoughts of suicide. Faith has been shaken and the light at the end of the tunnel has all but extinguished.

That wounding has been deepened through the abandonment or insensitivity of the usual support system. Rather than finding the compassionate Good Samaritan (Luke 10:33) who is proactive in healing and support, many find only “Job’s comforters” (Job 16:2) admonishing the bleeding and broken to just get over it and get back to living. There is a time to grieve and while none of us needs to prolong that state, the severity of some blows takes longer for recovery, even hospitalization.

As a friend pointed out to me a few days ago, “Remember that despair, depression, fear… and a number of other spirits are laying heavy upon the nation.”

You are not alone.

The Word says we will be shaken, tested, and tried. However, God’s intention is not that we be destroyed, but that we come through purified, refined, and responding more like Jesus, “a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief” (Isaiah 53:3). It was Jesus, after all, who commended the Good Samaritan for tending to the hurts and needs of the hurt man.

God never wastes anything.

As an intercessor said to me, “If He didn’t stop it, He will use it.” It may be difficult to see how God can use the troubles we may have experienced. Yet, trusting Him in the dark and confusing times is all part of living by faith. There is treasure to be found in darkness.

“And I will give thee the treasures of darkness, and hidden riches of secret places, that thou mayest know that I, the LORD, which call thee by thy name, am the God of Israel.” ~ Isaiah 45:3

You may not get all the answers you want, but every difficulty is another chance to find out who the Lord is and to find out who you are.  You can get past it.

“Therefore I will look unto the Lord; I will wait for the God of my salvation: my God will hear me. Rejoice not against me, O mine enemy: when I fall, I shall arise; when I sit in darkness, the Lord shall be a light unto me.” ~ Micah 7:7-8

Selah.

Handling Promotion Well

Posted On: May 22nd, 2012 By: Donna Astern

Many years ago when I worked at a restaurant, a certain server was noted as being a particularly good worker and showed potential for taking on more responsibility.  So she was promoted to a supervisory position instead of waiting tables.  Unfortunately, her initial response to the new position was to lose her friendly smile. She began to throw her weight around, waste time, clown around, and stopped engaging the customers. Shortly afterwards, she was fired.

A newly promoted employee can also be the target of envious coworkers who challenge his authority or seek to manipulate him or to get by with slothful work. All of a sudden, he is no longer just “one of the guys” even though he may not be behaving badly. His new responsibility brings a different perspective not necessarily shared or appreciated by his coworkers.

Human nature being what it is, we see the same dynamics unfortunately within the local church context.

A promoted leader may become puffed up and presume a special status exempting her from all the tasks and courtesies she previously practiced. She may become deliberately mysterious, implying spiritual superiority and treating other members with disrespect and discourtesy. That may be the way it is in certain business environments, but it is not the way Jesus conducted His ministry.

“You call Me Teacher and Lord; and you are right, for so I am. If I then, the Lord and the Teacher, washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. For I gave you an example that you also should do as I did to you.” ~ John 13:13-15 NASB

Another new leader now realizes what all is involved in running a smooth operation and subsequently has a different and broader perspective than the one without the responsibility. The pastor may be challenged by the worship leader who doesn’t understand why the pastor won’t fund his ideas or give him more time in the service. The pastor is aware of other department leaders with ideas and needs to be considered as well, such as the tired and hungry babies in the nursery with the frazzled worker when the service goes too long. Or the need to repair the roof outweighs buying more musical equipment at the current time. It will not be possible to always make everyone happy at the same time.

“For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a bond-servant of Christ.” ~ Gal 1:10 NASB

A little humility can go a long way in both directions. The promoted leader is wise to remember the lessons he learned and the experiences he had before when he was just “one of the guys”.  The coworker can continue to be a diligent and faithful part of the business or ministry support team, rather than create a new set of difficulties for the leader to face.

The root of these issues is the pride of life and of being overly concerned with what others may think of us. The key for us is to learn to live from the heart consistently with our professed values.

As always, whether we are chosen for promotion or not, our example is the Lord Jesus. He did not pursue His own reputation or stature as God’s Son.

“…who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped,
but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men.” ~ Phil 2:6-7 NASB

By the same token, demotion is also a time to embrace humility and to get free of concerns about reputation. Who we are is more important than what we do.

May this statement be true of us all:

“so that you will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God” ~ Col 1:10 NASB

A Flying Caterpillar

Posted On: March 7th, 2012 By: Donna Astern

By David Alsobrook

A fuzzy caterpillar was crawling on a tree limb munching on green leaves. He noticed birds flying in the air and something intuitively said to him: One day you will fly! He knows this came from The Creator and believes it in his caterpillar heart, but his caterpillar mind gets it tangled up somehow. He envisions himself as a Flying Caterpillar!

He begins to get sleepy and notices ooze coming from his body. Next thing he knows is he is in a dark place, a warm cocoon. And then disaster strikes: his body begins dissolving in that dark, wet place. “Oh no!” the fuzzy caterpillar cries, “I am losing my fuzziness, my greenness, my caterpillar-ness! This is horrible! Why is The Creator causing this to happen to me? He promised me wings, but instead I’m A MESS!”

He finally surrenders his self-image of “caterpillarness” (his understanding of what it means to be a good caterpillar, a praying caterpillar, a giving caterpillar, a holy caterpillar). AND HE GOES TO REST IN HIS STATE OF COMPLETE SURRENDER TO THE CREATOR.

One day he emerges. It is the same caterpillar but he doesn’t look like one anymore, and he has beautiful WINGS! Soon he is airborne and leaves Mexico and flies to Canada, stopping off in California on the way. His view of things is so much different now!  He is no longer inching along one limb of one tree, but sees millions of trees!

Friend, you and hundreds of others like you, have read my book, heard my CDs and prayed for “a flat rock somewhere like the one David was told to sit on…” Instead of a flat rock, you are finding greater misery, darkness, and losing what little bit of God you thought you had. Or so you think…Think…THINK.

In truth you haven’t lost anything except your fuzziness, your greenness, your immaturity. You are about to emerge totally new and fly to new places in God with a beauty most rare and a body most light.

Friend, you said, “I’ve surrendered.” But you have only THOUGHT you surrendered. Once you surrender, let go of your attachments to what you THINK and come down into your reborn spirit and REST, The Creator will remake you.  You will fly, dear friend…do not fear.

You are not doing anything wrong,friend. But you should not be doing. Instead, allow yourself to BE in Christ.

I am “confident of this very thing–He who began a good work in you will complete it for the day of Christ.”

Sure Word Ministries

www.DavidAlsobrook.com

Broken Promises, Broken Dreams Restored

Posted On: January 4th, 2012 By: Donna Astern

By Swanson Soyars

“Jesus said, ‘Have the people sit down.’ There was plenty of grass in that place, and the men sat down, about five thousand of them. Jesus then took the loaves, gave thanks, and distributed to those who were seated as much as they wanted. He did the same with the fish. When they had all had enough to eat, he said to his disciple, ‘Gather the pieces that are left over. Let nothing be wasted.’ So they gathered them and filled twelve baskets with the pieces of the five barley loaves left over by those who had eaten.”

(John 6:10-13)

Jesus emphasized “Let nothing be wasted, pick up and gather the broken pieces”, (broken promises and dreams of God over your life and the lives of others). The twelve baskets represent both the twelve tribes of Israel and the governmental authority of His kingdom.

Jesus did not pick up the pieces that were left over and or broken, He directed his disciples to pick them up, and place them in the government of His authority.

Just as Israel in the Old Testament was a representation of God’s order and or government in the lives of His people, Jesus came and presented a new order of government where both the law and covenant where completed in Him.

Today He asks us to pick up the broken promises and/or dreams for our lives and others, and place them in the basket of His authority.

God’s provision of both His spoken word and dreams for our life are always enough to meet our immediate need, fill us with a sense of belonging, of being loved, and having a God-given purpose. As we go through life we soon discover that hardships, circumstances, and/or choices we have made have somehow canceled out our dreams and/or destiny that once filled us with joy and anticipation.

Yet given Jesus’ example, we are directed to pick up and gather the broken promises of our lives, and those who are in our circle or may come into our circle of life. By faith we can prevail in our prayers as a starting point for this process to begin. If we assume the Word of God is living and active, and we are filled with the spirit of life(living) and truth, then we can surely handle and pick up God’s spoken word and/or dreams for our lives and others in prayer.

If God did not allow Samuel’s words to fall to the ground, and if His Word does not return to Him void, then do we not have the right to pick up and gather by faith broken dreams and promises spoken by God, place them back under His authority, and allow Him to breathe new life, or mend that which was broken?

So in fact, you are an agent for the restoration of dreams. You are one who can pick up what has been broken and help make it whole again. You may then soon find yourself encountering people in your circle of friends whose dreams are starting to become reality.

Rejoice!
“The LORD has done what He purposed; He has accomplished His word Which He commanded from days of old.”
(Lam 2:17a)

Daddy’s home!

Posted On: December 1st, 2011 By: Donna Astern

At the end of the day the front door opens, and the little boy runs to the door, announcing “Daddy’s home!” It is a joyful reunion as he relishes Daddy’s enthusiastic embrace and affection, eager to hug and to tell his dad all about his day. He knows he is welcome in Daddy’s arms.

Consider the difference with an orphan who may have had years of painful memories that taught him that fathers will not always be there to welcome and embrace. Even when adopted into a loving home, it may be quite some time before he gets used to the fact that he is a real member of the family and that Daddy will actually be there for him. He may be filled with dread when he disobeys or disappoints, that desertion is sure to follow.

A good father does not want his children to be afraid that he might abandon them. Even when correction is necessary, he still wants them to be restored to favor once again. He wants them to be quick to come to him with their joys and sorrows. He speaks words of encouragement and tells them who they are.

One of the most reassuring and comforting statements Jesus ever made was, “I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.” (John 14:18)

Intellectually, we may accept this as truth, yet in practice, there may be niggling uncertainties that maybe, just maybe, we will be abandoned for our failures. Maybe we will be “hung out to dry”. Maybe we will be judged or rebuked for not fulfilling His will, if we can even figure out what that is.

We are still trembling at a distance more concerned about forthcoming rebukes or abandonment than comfort. So we pray and plead, “Oh God, please, please, please…” out of desperation, rather faith and joy in His everlasting arms.

Why is that? We assign attitudes to God out of our own fear, beliefs, and experiences that He is not guilty of.

Did you ever notice how Job repeatedly stood his ground that he had done no wrong and did not deserve his calamity? Even his friends were unconvinced. They were sure his present suffering was due to paying for his sins.

I wonder if any of us would have been so bold to declare our own righteousness, especially when contending with God.

Being thoroughly secure in our Father’s love is a source of comfort and strength in times of uncertainty and trouble. It provides peace and reassurance that we are not abandoned and that He remains loyal to us. We don’t have to beg Him for provision or His affection or revelation of His will. Instead we learn to rest in the fact that we are truly and deeply loved, knowing that all will be well. Running to Him with open arms, we have the promise of Jesus’ words to all who trust in Him and the reassurance of the Holy Comforter that we are indeed part of His family.

For this reason I bow my knees before the Father,
from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name,
that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with power through His Spirit in the inner man,

so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; {and} that you, being
rooted and grounded in love,
may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth,

and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God.

Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us,

to Him {be} the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen.

(Eph 3:14-21 NAS)

Spiritual Evolution

Posted On: September 21st, 2011 By: Donna Astern

True spiritual evolution starts with a divine dissatisfaction with our current status. Recognition of our need for the Savior initially led us to becoming born again.


From that point on, we grew and made spiritual progress. Yet, when our journey led us to a wall, we grew increasingly appalled at the disparity between the promises of the Word and what was our current experience. The abundant life Jesus promised was only partially understood or incorporated into everyday life. We knew deep down we were falling short of the promise.

In this state, we strain against the limitations and discomfort of our mindsets and emotional trappings, yet are stymied at how to truly break free. Some resign themselves to “You’re only human. That’s just the way it is.”  But it is that continual, growing discontentment that pushes us to keep going, to keep looking for the answer.

Before you assume none of this applies to you, consider this question:

“Are you living in perfect peace at all times?” If not, why not?

Consider the baby chick in the shell. For all of his existence, he has been nourished and has flourished in a place of comfort and security. Growing to the point that the former safe place, the protection from the outside has become restrictive and stifling, no longer is he satisfied with his status or environment. BUT he does not know what to do except to start pecking away at it! He has to do it alone without any outside help. It is his destiny to eventually break free of the shell.

He pecks and rests and pecks again until at long last, he is free. Only then does he find a new world has opened up to him. Selah.

Longing for Liberation

But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as from the Lord, the Spirit. (2 Cor 3:18 NAS)

Outward change where others may notice is not enough. It is the secret, hidden place inside that desperately longs for liberation from worry, fear, disquiet, endless planning or rehearsing the past, self-made dramas of imaginary conversations. While yearning for the promised rest, peace, and contentment, the internal conflict remains.

Nothing the mind can come up with successfully deals with the very root of it all. Why?

To finally admit to ourselves that it’s not working takes courage. To evolve, to go past where we have been, we begin to be willing to give up what we thought we understood, to see the words of Jesus with fresh eyes and a newly opened heart.

Just as with other crises of faith, for those who are hungry enough, this one takes us way out of the comfort zone to launch us into the deeper things of the Spirit.

Deep calls to deep at the sound of Your waterfalls; All Your breakers and Your waves have rolled over me. (Ps 42:7 NAS)

For to us God revealed {them} through the Spirit; for the Spirit searches all things, even the depths of God.

(1 Cor 2:10 NAS)

But a natural man does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually appraised. (1 Cor 2:14 NAS)

Going into the depths means letting go of the shallow waters we were accustomed to. Things may no longer make sense and we are baffled at how to proceed. We find ourselves over our heads, literally.

Evolving spiritually means no longer living out of the mind or emotions, but living from, out of, and by the spirit. It means distinguishing between the soul and spirit, so that the soul is quieted and the spirit is dominant and freedom reigns!

This is a new approach. Out in the deep is a constant serenity. We are no longer tossed by every wave, but are unmoved deep inside, holding the love of God in steadfastness.

Pecking Away

Friend, know this: Once you decide you don’t need the past comforts and security that made up your identity any longer, life is better on the outside of the shell.

You will not get all your questions answered in this process. You may have no idea of how things will turn out. You only know that deep down SOMETHING has to change.

In the parable of the Pearl of Great Price, the man sold everything to obtain the one thing that was most valuable to him.

We may not be required to give up a position or a role in life, but we most certainly will find it necessary to relinquish its importance to us.

Even more than that, our ideas of how things ought to be will have to change. Rather than fight life, let us learn from it. “It is hard to kick against the goads”, Jesus said to Paul.

Humility is the first step.

“Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” (Matt 11:29-30 NAS)

Ask your Teacher to show you how to take His yoke in exchange for the one you struggle under. Be prepared to learn some things about yourself and about His better way.

Your dissatisfaction was divinely ordered, and so your liberation awaits. Because Jesus is the Author and Finisher of your salvation, you are in good hands.

“{For I am} confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.”

(Phil 1:6 NAS)

Dream Interpretation Team Availability

Posted On: August 22nd, 2011 By: Donna Astern

The Dream Team will not be available from August 24 to Sept 11, 2011.  Any dreams submitted during this time will receive interpretations after the team returns.

Thank you for understanding!

Fewer Cowardly Lions: A Call to Leaders

Posted On: August 11th, 2011 By: Donna Astern

In Frank Baum’s famous story, The Wizard of Oz, is a lion whose behavior is far removed from his rank as “King of the Jungle”.  He is a pathetic, sniveling coward afraid to lead and to confront the threats that surround him and his traveling companions.  Near the end of the story, he finally rises to the challenge and demonstrates courage for the very first time, which brings a positive transformation to his personality and respect from the others.

Lion

Too often in the Body of Christ, we have leaders with a position of authority who are afraid to address the very real problems in the lives of those they oversee.  Too often, the leader shies away with a promise to pray over the troublesome situation, while apparently waiting for it to go away or for someone else to deal with it.

(Granted, there are also tyrants in leadership, but that problem is not my topic today.)

The call to leadership is a call to take responsibility, to take action.

Confusion exists over “not judging”, or “not controlling”, or “not crossing boundaries”.  It is time for Cowardly Lions to take courage, to stand up and risk the displeasure of those directly affected or of  onlookers.

Where legal criminality is not a factor, believers are called to settle disputes among other fellow believers internally. Civil authority is authorized and obligated by our government to deal with lawbreakers. Likewise leaders in the Church are authorized and obligated by the Word of God to deal with problems that develop in the family, community, and ministry. How is it now that some leaders consider it to be “none of their business”?

When a church member doesn’t treat his employees well or cheats his brothers, should that not be addressed?  When an adult neglects caring for his elderly parent, should that be simply left to “we’ll pray about it”?

True leaders have to deal with the tough issues no one wants to clean up. Reconciliation is hard work.

President Harry Truman had a sign on his desk that read, “The buck stops here!”

The Buck

If you want to be a godly leader, you will have to deal with your own desires to be liked and appreciated and to keep peace at any cost. Otherwise, you contribute to a festering problem that can contaminate the ministry’s effectiveness and perpetrate the wounding. Every leader must at some point choose between doing what makes people happy and what is right. An offended or wronged person’s only hope of recourse by human means may be you, Christian leader. God usually chooses a Moses or a Nathan to bring deliverance to painful and difficult situations.

Yes, it is true that people may not like it when you address their sins and shortcomings. And yes, confrontation needs to be done with compassion, wisdom, and in a timely manner.

Leaders, do the hard thing. Love your people enough to get involved to bring justice.

“Masters, grant to your slaves justice and fairness, knowing that you too have a Master in heaven.” ~ Col 4:1

When A Leader Fails You

The Word instructs us to take our grievance directly to the pertinent individual and if that does not succeed, to bring along an ally in hopes of reconciliation.  What if the chosen ally was an elder or pastor who refused to get involved?  What recourse does the wronged believer have to bring resolution?

For every authority on the earth, there is a higher authority.  In our court systems, if you don’t like the decision the judge renders, you may have the right to appeal to a higher court.

Thank God there is a Heavenly Court of Appeals! Knowing that the heart of Father is reconciliation, we can be reassured that He will hear our case as we come in faith while extending and receiving forgiveness where needed. Draw hope and faith from His Word.

“…God who reconciled us to Himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation” ~ 2 Cor 5:18

Fewer Cowards

Leaders, those we minister to are looking for courageous men and women worthy of respect.  I urge every leader to prayerfully consider how to best eradicate any trace of personal cowardice with wisdom and compassion. The Lord Jesus is our example.

“Be on the alert, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” ~ 1 Cor 16:13-14

Thank you for accepting the call to courageous leadership!


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Thorns on Your Brow

Posted On: July 21st, 2011 By: Donna Astern

Lying awake in bed late at night and tossing and turning, the tormenting thoughts and disturbing emotions were relentless, forbidding rest, much less sleep. All attempts at relief, all the usual remedies, were not working. The grief and nagging hurt continued as the minutes slowly passed into hours. Nothing seemed to soothe the fretful brow, to restore peace.

Although knowing that internal peace is the inheritance of believers, that peace was taking a severe beating. The fight for peace to remain was fierce, and the promise was unchanged.

“And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” ~ Phil 4:7

Reality was not matching the promise, so it was time to take a closer look. The prior verse showed the condition for the promise:

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.”

~ Phil 4:6

The problem seemed to lie in leaving the request in confident trust with the Lord, while the painful situation remained apparently unresolved.

The Spirit of God brought this reminder:

“But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities:
the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed.” ~ Isa 53:5 KJV

This phase means “the whipping for our shalom fell upon Him” (with my thanks to David Alsobrook http://www.davidalsobrook.com for the definition).

The Crown of Pain and Mockery
He took the beating for our peace. This was amplified to me as I thought about the crown of thorns.

“And after twisting together a crown of thorns, they put it on His head, and a reed in His right hand; and they knelt down before Him and mocked Him, saying, “Hail, King of the Jews!” They spat on Him, and took the reed and {began} to beat Him on the head.”

~ Mat 27:29-30

The soldiers made a crown out of thorns and pushed into His skin. The prickly thorns were a constant source of irritation, compounded by the mockery and beating on His head. Some sources have said this particular type of thorn caused incessant itching as well– relentless, hurting, irritating barbs without relief.

What an illustration of mental and emotional distress!

The mockery and accusations continued:

“He saved others; He cannot save Himself. He is the King of Israel; let Him now come down from the cross, and we will believe in Him. “HE TRUSTS IN GOD; LET GOD RESCUE {Him} now, IF HE DELIGHTS IN HIM; for He said, ‘I am the Son of God.’” ~ Matt 27:42-43

As a parallel, in our times of distress, similar accusing thoughts attack our minds, asking, “Where is your God? Why hasn’t He done anything?”

These accusations do not resolve the pain or solve any problem, but are only instruments of torment, designed to bring fear, guilt, and doubt, to further keep us from experiencing the peace of God.

His Thorns for Our Peace
Each part of Jesus’ suffering has provided a corresponding remedy for us. He has suffered for us so that we would be victorious and experience the abundant life He promised.

Just as salvation from sin and physical healing are included in the redemption Jesus purchased for us, so is the ability to remain in “perfect peace” (Is 26:3 KJV).

Having these promises of peace, and knowing that He is faithful to keep His word, it is time to have internal peace restored.

Finding Your Way Back to Peace

It may not be a quick or easy path, but the way back to peace is simple for it is tied to faith. Here are some basic steps:

1. Know that peace of mind and emotions is possible and is promised to you.
2. Air your complaint to the Lord, asking for His help, while being willing to have a new perspective and give up the old one, even when you do not understand.
3. Keep returning to the promise which was made possible through Jesus’ suffering on your behalf.
4. Choose to trust God, reaffirming it as often as necessary throughout the day or night.
5. Be thankful for His merciful help, remembering His faithfulness to you in times past.

In the place of peace, it may seem strange not to worry or be aggravated while the situation appears to remain unchanged. That is why it is “past comprehension”.

Peace accompanies faith, so that whether the storm passes quickly or not, we will endure in quietness and security in His love and care.

“Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.” ~ John 14:27

This is our inheritance. We can retain it with the grace He provides.

Maneuvering the Fog

Posted On: June 10th, 2011 By: Donna Astern

Driving early one morning through the Georgia foothills, it was evident this would not be a sight-seeing trip. The heavy fog enveloped us so that only the immediate road and signage was visible.

Watching for the correct numbered exit was the primary focus, even as the lack of scenic surroundings and need to drive more slowly made the distance between exits seem longer than usual.

Without opportunity to see and appreciate the green hills and waterways, we concentrated on the highway and the traffic.  Eventually as the morning wore on, the fog began to dissipate and our visibility increased.

Finding Your Way in the Fog

The fog in the natural world parallels this kind of haziness in our life or ministry path.

Many, many believers feel they are in a time of “foggy maneuvering”, often referred to as “transition”.  Not only is there metaphorical fog in life at times, but also much uncertainty on how to proceed. In such times, our point of departure may have been very clear at the time we left a place, environment, position, method, but the path to the next destination, or even what that place is, is very murky!

A new day is often accompanied by fog.

Just like that early morning in the Georgia foothills, this fog is temporary.  Eventually your path will become clear. You could possibly sit and wait, and in most situations, it will lift after a time. The actual distance to the next point will still need to be crossed, so sitting and waiting may not be the best option.

Slowing Down

Wisdom requires that when beginning to move forward in fog, to slow down. Your next step may only be a small one, and it may not take you far, but it is a step in the right direction.  Have you said, “All I know to do right now is…”?  Actually, that is exactly what you need to do.

Taking that next step is a combination of faith and the previous disciplines you have learned.

A man of God once described to me a bout of depression, burnout, and discouragement he went through.  “All I knew to do was to keep my daily discipline of reading the Word and prayer, as lifeless as it seemed at the time.  I didn’t increase the time I was accustomed to spending in devotions. I didn’t do much else during those days. Then one day, I woke up and I was better.”

Wow. So much for all the usual lists of “5 Steps to Your Breakthrough”.

Slowing down for you will not be the same as it is for other people.  But slowing down will mean to be cautious and not rush headlong into something new. It requires learning timing.

Slowing down calls for reflection, review, or perhaps calling a coach to help process what is happening. At a slower pace, your priorities may become reordered or clarified. It may be a time of “retuning to your first love”, or a change in perspective, roles, or function.

God is after something during this time. It is up to you to understand what that is.  And in my experience, He is never doing just one thing at a time. Hindsight often reveals additional insight.

The Issue of Faith

If faith is believing in what you cannot see, this is necessary for foggy maneuvering.  A demand is placed on your confidence in Who the Lord is and what He has promised.  Consider:

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”
~ Ps 119:105

Notice it is a lamp, not a floodlight. A lamp, like a small flashlight or candle, only lights a small area– just enough to see where to step next.  That is all that is needed at the moment, although we may prefer a much greater light.

Ever notice how walking by faith means you don’t get all the immediate answers you want?

When you take the first step, the next step is illuminated.  Eventually, you arrive at the destination.

“His word” may be a verse of Scripture, or it may very well be the leading of Holy Spirit speaking to your spirit. (Of course, such direction will not conflict with the written Word.)

An old hymn from my childhood begins, “Savior, like a shepherd, lead us.” It is time to stop singing and praying for leading, but to start believing your prayer was heard, and that the Lord wants to lead you even more than you want Him to! He may lead you to go very slowly for a time.  Some terrains cannot safely be navigated speedily.

Faith trusts that your Shepherd knows what He is doing in your life and is leading you, as you choose to look to Him and not go astray.

Finding the Exit

While maneuvering the fog,you will quite naturally be waiting for the exit sign to appear.  It may seem to have been a long wait, but if you have remained on the path of doing what you know to do, you will come across it. You will likely even come across hints and suggestions that you are getting closer. The Lord is most merciful to give encouragement when we need it.

When the indication for the exit comes, it will be when the time is right.  An opportunity may appear, or a direction, fresh wave of inspiration or vision for your future.  With the exit sign will come peace and internal joy.

“For you will go out with joy And be led forth with peace; The mountains and the hills will break forth into shouts of joy before you, And all the trees of the field will clap their hands.”
Is 55:12

“But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumph in Christ, and manifests through us the sweet aroma of the knowledge of Him in every place.”
~ 2 Cor 2:14

Even if the way will be clearly challenging, you will be ready to undertake it, knowing your destiny is to triumph!

You are called to go from faith to faith. May God be glorified in your life like never before!